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Why Do I Always Do This Before A Trip?

Yesterday, I was packing for a keynote I’m doing in Toronto…

And I found myself falling into the same old ridiculous pattern.

I tell myself…

“You’re only going to be there for 2 nights, you don’t need to pack a lot of things.”

Then my mind goes into a hundred “what-if” scenarios that make me pack my suitcase to the point where I can barely close it ?.

And I realized…

The overpacked suitcase physically represents how I’m overpacking my mind.

Think about it…

I don’t really need all the clothes I’m packing for this trip…

Just like I don’t really need all those thoughts swirling around in my head all the time.

The mind LOVES to overthink…

It enjoys considering every “what-if” scenario…

Because it makes it feel SAFE.

If gives it a sense of CONTROL.

It provides it with a sense of COMFORT.

More accurately…

It gives it a FALSE sense of safety, control, and comfort.

Because in reality…

Most of the thoughts are useless, worthless, and unnecessarily disruptive.

Just like this heavy carry-on that I have to drag with me everywhere I go on this trip.

So I decided to unpack the suitcase…

Remove all the clothes…

And pack lighter.

I encourage you to do the same with your own mind.

Unpack it…

Remove the clutter…

And tap into a simpler way of thinking.

Life feels a lot easier when you’re not weighed down by what you don’t need.

Rooting for you,
Jay (encouraging you to unpack the clutter and tap into simplicity)